Buying a house is not easy now, and many people will choose to rent a house first to save money and decide later. However, a daughter-in-law complained that she took advantage of the government's assistance and discount period to buy a warm and air conditioner. Unexpectedly, she was so sorry for her mother-in-law that she could buy Japanese cold and cold air conditioner. "If you have money, you can buy Japanese cold air, you won't save money to buy a house?" She made her angry and said, "It's so exciting to have warm air that you can blow, but she was hurt by her mother-in-law."

Buying cold and getting cold and being sour, "Why don't you save money and buy a house?"

A netizen said in the face community "Breaking Resentment 2 Commune" that her former son took advantage of the government's assistance and offers to change the warm and air conditioning of a Japanese brand. As a result, her mother-in-law came to her house and started to speak sour words. In the face of her children, she said to the couple: "If you have money, you can buy this kind of Japanese cold and won't you save money and buy a house. Now she is still renting a house with others, won't she feel very embarrassed?"

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The original PO said that he really felt very angry at the moment. He could still remove the cold air when moving in the future! She admitted that "I originally wanted to look at my mother-in-law, but when I saw that my husband was just low and didn't say anything, and the children were watching, and finally I ended up holding it up."

At the end of the article, she said, "It's a pleasure to have warmth to blow, but my mother-in-law, who was so nagging, completely abolished such a good mood. Every time she told her husband, it was useless. He didn't do anything, and he really felt very tired."

Netizens said: Even if you save 20 units in the air, you can't afford a house

. Regarding this, some netizens comforted her, "Mother-in-law loves to talk about this kind of thing very much, which is normal", "You can't afford a house even if you save 20 units in the air, and you won't be able to buy a house for your first time", "It's all about her, it's not her money!", "I can afford to buy a house if you buy a cold air, but I won't buy a house if you only cost 30,000 units in the air, how can you buy a house?", "I'm honest and said that your mother-in-law may be cheating her own son, and she still has no ability to buy a house for her wife to live in."

5 tricks to solve the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

1. Transfer the conversation: If you encounter low-priced or disrespectful comments like your mother-in-law, you can try to transfer the conversation, such as asking her if she has done anything interesting recently, or sharing some questions that have nothing to do with the warmth and air. This can prevent the atmosphere from becoming more awkward or causing unnecessary quarrels.

2. Try to communicate: If your mother-in-law often talks to you, you can try to communicate with her so that she can know that such words will make you feel uncomfortable. The mother-in-law may have good intentions, but the expression may not be very good. Through communication, both parties can better understand each other's ideas and establish better relationships.

3. Establish a border: If you have communicated with your mother-in-law, but she still often says this, then you can consider establishing some borders. For example, if the mother-in-law comes to your home and starts picking about your home decoration or your consumption method, you can try a clear signal to let her know that such a statement is not allowed.

4. Don't pay attention to the low language of the Internet: The mother-in-law's speech may make you uncomfortable, but if you know that this is not her intention, then you can try to ignore the low language of the Internet. After all, you can't control other people's comments, but you can control your emotional reactions. Don't let other people's words affect your emotions.

5. Find support: When you encounter difficulties, finding supporters can help you get through the difficulties. You can chat with like-minded friends, or seek professional consultation services. By sharing your feelings, you can reduce pressure and find better solutions.

In short, the problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law needs to be solved by the joint efforts of both parties. In the process of solving problems, mutual respect, understanding and inclusion are needed to build a stable family relationship.