Editorial Note: If life is beyond expectations, how can you smile? Because of his involvement in drama performances, Tao Jiezheng, founder of "Qi Ge" who has been a entrepreneurship player, broadcast DJ, and column writer, has been in troubled by the crisis of business owed billions of debts with his partner and has been in a downturn with his partner. Faced with his life situation, he is like an actor who does not challenge the film. Since he has stepped on the stage, he will play the role of the moment and be as happy as possible.

If you say "life is like a show", then the script that Tao Jie, who is called "Dad Tao", will definitely be a difficult performance.

As the second generation of inheritance, Tao Chen seemed to be born with a gold spoon, but it is not the so-called "life success group", but it has more ups and downs that ordinary people cannot imagine. At his age 25, 39 and 46, he encountered major events that could change his life. Now, to his mouth, he is a light and light style.

Tao Jinzheng, who has been practicing independently and loves traveling

, has entered the family business after he was discharged from the army. In order to expand his company's business, he once went to Central and South America to invest in Central and South America with a foreign trade association group. For him, this is a precious experience to practice your own independent action early and find ways to do it.

"It was really not easy to do business in Central and South America at that time. After shipping, it was rare to pay for 30 days or 90 days. Sometimes the money may not be collected back."

Once Tao Jin passed an alley on the right road and heard music coming out. He walked up curiously and saw that there were several people who formed a small group, and a group of people were dancing around him. He thought it was interesting, so he stood by and watched for a while. At night, Tao Jie was talking about his experience during the day. The local Chinese women were sweating for him. It turned out that there was a slum with poor public security. Usually, Chinese women were afraid of being beaten and dared not approach him. "When experiencing outside, it is actually a tutor."

When I was young, I crossed half of the Earth's world. In addition to establishing the "Qi Ge" path in the future, I also allowed him to travel on a self-guided trip from this. Over the past decade, he has traveled almost all corners of the world, and wrote a 10-year travel column, and his wife is the best travel companion.

Once the father's debt of 1.5 billion yuan, the body will have a warm and friendly relationship

My marriage early and take over the family business, Tao Zhen actually didn't have much choice for his life: "After people get married, they seem to have a sense of self-reliance. They should be settled. It is unlikely that they should go abroad to study at this time. And the company is not stable, so you can only go to work quickly to help."

Tao Jin had long been confident about the business conditions of his father's company. "My father's way of solving debts is to open more new companies, hoping to make money and debts through this. As a result, the bigger the hole is. I don't know where he came from. The confidence in the end is often quarrels." Tao Jin was smiling bitterly.

"The seriousness later was that the money paid was not enough, and the bleeding could be stopped by selling the company, but my father was not willing to do so." When Tao Che was 39 years old, the financial crisis that had accumulated over a long period of time finally broke out, with a total debt of up to 1.5 billion.

Because the amount is too large, Tao Jiezheng must engage in debt negotiations with the debtor and decide on the repayment plan. "This makes me learn how to stand on the other side's position and think about things. If I were owed money today, I would definitely be unhappy! So I have to let others think that you have the kindness to deal with it, and there is really a specific way."

Because of the debt and debt, Tao Jie is in a real world and warm and warm life. "In the past, many people who were called brothers and said how they were in harmony with each other, but they turned their faces to the most thoroughly; on the contrary, some people who are not familiar with each other and even have a background in the world can talk to you as long as they speak out."

If there is today, there will be tomorrow, or should we pass

We ask Dad Tao, how can we bear such a heavy burden and bear the heavy burden?

"To be honest, after the number is too large, your feeling begins to be irritated. The most important thing is that this is not an accident that happens overnight. It is that in the past 10 years, you see that the debt slowly snowballed, and finally it is hard to get it. I am somewhat mentally prepared. If I can't keep it, it will collapse."

After the negotiation, the debt was divided into 6 periods, increasing from 10% and 15% to 25% every 2 years. Every year, the deadline for debt collection is the hardest time for Dad Tao. "At that time, I could only think: after today, I could pass tomorrow, and after tomorrow, I could pass the day after tomorrow. There would always be ways to get there."

Subsequently, the debtors gradually stopped going to the door to check all day. "At first, they might worry about me running away. Later, I probably saw that I really had some money, and some people would occasionally bring fruits and feel happy, so I would chat a few words." When it came to his heart, Dad Tao would occasionally go to the movies or music clubs. "My wife was stunned when she saw it and asked me: Why can you continue to watch it? But I think I should eat and sleep, and I still have to pass the days."

Compared to Dad Tao's calmness, after the company owed a debt of debt, "Mother Tao" who decided to jump out to help Xiaoping, who was busy handling the account, was not so suitable. "Because my wife is from a military family, she is a habit of working with a fixed salary every month. This kind of days when we are paying for tickets and striking all day, it is like taking a steel line to tell her."

After spending 50 years of marriage, eating bowls of noodles together is the greatest happiness

Dad Tao and Mom Tao are the same classmates they met at college. They are both their first days. As soon as they graduate, they enter the wedding ceremony. After ten years of school, they have been the lovers of gods and friends around them.

However, Tao's personality is completely opposite to Tao's unrestrained and unrestrained nature.. Tao Jinzheng and his father often had conflicts due to different businessmen. Tao Jin had to be a peacemaker for both father and son. In addition, they faced financial pressure on the company every day, and over time, they gradually became a heavy burden on their body and mind.

In 2005, Tao's father finally discovered that Mother Tao was in a different state. After Mother Tao began to study the physical and mental department, Tao's father also adjusted the attitude of loving jokes and sarcastic love in the past, and no longer always hurt people with heartless words. Mother Tao said, "It's like changing a husband!"

Unexpectedly, because the pattern of the relationship suddenly changed, "many words have to swallow it back, for fear of making her feel unhappy." In addition, she didn't understand "how my wife gets depressed", after Mother Tao's condition improved, she changed into a father Tao's depressed and widowed at home, didn't want to see anyone, and didn't want to go out. This situation lasted for a year before slowly getting better.

In the first two years, the two people suffered from emotional distress, and this test also made each other's hearts closer. "After being together for so long, the grinding of all kinds of things has been polished. Now it is the day for each other to accompany each other and to pass the old couple."

2020 is the 50th anniversary of the two people getting married. Many friends ask Tao’s father and mother how to express their gratitude? Tao's father smiled and replied, "It's nothing, just one person ordered a bowl of noodles." After walking through most of the leaves, they all understood that it was the happiest thing to spend ordinary daily life together.

In the play, life is both interesting and stressful.

In addition to being a corporate member, Tao's father met Lu Xun and performing workshops at the age of 46 because of his wife's social activities. The first show was to perform with two experienced artists, Li Liqun and Dun Anning. At that time, the company's debt was not over yet. During the day, he was in the company to spend money and scheduled it at night, and instead he was able to temporarily withdraw from the real troubles.

"In real life, when I enter the company, I am the supervisor and boss. Only when I act, I can be the one who strikes the boss (laughs). When acting, no one cares who you are outside. If you act well, encourage, or not, the director's review time will be opened." Tao Jinzheng said.

Mistakes and enters the drama circle. Tao Zhen, who once said that "acting is a serious business, and chairman is a vice-professional", said that he loved watching novels and movies since childhood, and liked to immerse himself in the story. So far, he has performed more than 300 stage dramas and has also entered the Golden Bell Awards three times.

Not only did he perform his experience on stage, but he liked Tao Jie Zheng, who sang with a guitar when he was young. He also entered the field of drama performance. In addition to being a host of broadcasting programs, he also started a music program with the experienced music reviews Ma Shifang, showing off his singing voice at the end of the program and revolving his own music dream.

Dad Tao, who started learning guitar at the age of 14, said that because of his performance, he was more confident. "I was very excited when I was admitted to the junior high school entrance examination in Jianzhong, but I didn't expect that after I went in, I found that the level was too different. I was relegated to the second year. Fortunately, I could play guitar and sing, so I didn't feel like I was nothing. I told others that it only took 3 months to learn my level, but I could have a self-study."

Travel, drama and music are most of Tao's favorites, and other material desires are getting lower and lower. After retiring at the age of 70, the two of them originally said that they would continue traveling, but in recent years, Tao's mother has become disliked to go out because of her unsuitable body. Sometimes Tao's father would take her to the river bank for a walk, and sometimes she would stay in Sanzhi's farm for a few days. "If the plan does not change, at least take good care of yourself and don't give your children a burden."

Because of passing through various winds, Tao's father knows how to look at life more and more. "Many people say that I have made my life wonderful, but in fact, I just encounter something and want to complete it. The rest is beyond control, so I will hand it over to God!"

Original text: After 50 years of marriage, ordering a bowl of noodles is the best wish! Tao Jinzheng: If you spend every day well, you will have no regrets in life