Shufang has been taking care of her dementia mother for more than ten years. Over the years, taking care of her mother and accompanying her mother to the hospital was the whole of her life. After her mother passed away, she suffered from depression, insomnia, cried continuously, and lost more than ten kilograms. The brothers and sisters said, "You should be relieved." "Don't amplify your emotions and live your life well!" These seemingly comforting words made her feel lonely. She quit the physical and mental department of her mother who was diagnosed during her lifetime and talked to the doctor about her miss her mother. Shufang told the doctor that she was able to talk to the mother with those who knew her, saw her long-term efforts and worked hard to take care of her, which made her feel comforted.

Zhicheng has been caring for his wife who has cancer for many years. His wife passed away last year, and fortunately, his puppy Wangwang is still in love. He chats with Wangwang every day, cooks food for Wangwang and eats himself. Wangwang understands him and accompanys him through the most difficult time. A few months ago, Wangwang left due to kidney failure, and Zhicheng was responsible for sending Wangwang to medical treatment too late. Facing an empty house, without speaking objects, and without cooking for whom, Zhicheng couldn't eat, didn't know what life meant, couldn't tell the difference between night and day, and even walked.

Mao Xiu has a son who is busy once, and his son helped him carry his father to participate in the event. He was hit by a truck on the road, and his son and father passed away on the scene. He regretted and believed that this tragedy was his fault.

The pain of loss is unique

These are all clinic stories of Yuan Wei, a specialist in the elderly mental health department of Zhenxing Hospital. In the world of love and leaving, many people have also walked through the valley of death, and the scenes of life and death are different. Each person's tragedy is unique. The tragedy of the husband who lost his puppy cannot be compared with the father who lost his son; the daughter who lost his mother also mourned differently from the son who lost his father.

Yuan Ying also has his own story of grief; after Yu Yu passed away, Yuan Ying suffered from depression for four or five months.

"When I was young, I was often asked: Who do you love the most? My answers are always the first, grandma second, and then my dad and mom." When Yuan Ying was a child, her dad and mom went abroad to study. She lived at grandma's house all year round. After school, she also returned to Kaohsiung's maternity home in the winter and summer vacations, and she lived with her dad and mom for one-third of the year. Yui brought her to tell historical stories, talk about poems, buy vegetables at the market, and go home to cook for her to eat.

Shi Yuen passed away She was depressed

"He loved me and gave me love without conditions." Yuan Jiang remembered that if he got fat in his growth period, his father would ask her to eat less. If she thought she was too short, he would remind her not to wear flat shoes. Her parents would always carry many expected disciplines. "But Yuen would not. He was fat and he thought he was so cute when I was fat, and he thought he was very beautiful when I was thin." Until college, when I encountered happiness that I had to share, hard to complain, and confused discussion, Yuan Jiang's first thought was still 未分. She talks with Yui every week and chats for two hours. Her roommate thinks the phone is her boyfriend. She always accepts many things that are not afraid to talk to her father or friends, and she tells her that she knows that she will not be blamed for anything, and that she will look at her difficulties with a wise and humorous look, which makes her feel that life is not that bad.

日日日日本 is the initial unconditional love and the most profound complete acceptance in Yuan Ying's life. When Feng was born, she felt that she had lost something that could not be replaced in the world and thus suffered from depression.

Grateful to Yang Wei is dedicated to caring for the elders

When Yang Wei passed away, she was still a practical doctor. She experienced limited medical treatment. Later, she chose the Physical and Physical Department, and chose to play the role of a Physical and Physical Department doctor who accompanied and cared for more treatment. She even devoted herself to physical and mental medicine in the elderly and started the "Silver Optical Academy" that extended the course of disability.

"When I was a kid, I always hoped that when I made money, I would take it out for fun. I always talked about it like this before." When I said that, Yuan Wei still shed unwilling eyes, but after wiping the two purgations, she expressed more emotion as gratitude; thanking her life with Grandma Yu, which made her really like to be strong and patient at work; thanking her past pain, which made her empathetic to everyone who was in trouble.

After walking through the pain, Yuan Ying understood that the best gift to him was not sadness, but gratitude, and that he believed that his love was always with him, allowing her to make important and worthy choices.

The pain of loss lasts for more than 2 months. The symptoms seem to be depressed. There is no time for medical treatment early until the time after death. It involves many factors such as personal personality, the reasons for death, and the relationship between the two. For example, people who have bad relationships with their parents think that their parents will be more irrelevant than they leave, but no, all the children are asking their parents to recognize that they are unattainable, and their parents often have difficulty leaving their parents. On the contrary, people with good relations, hard work and satisfaction may have relatively short recovery time. But that's not certain.

The symptoms of the pain reaction and depression that are passed away are somewhat similar, and they will be sad, irritable, insomnia, poor appetite, and lose interest in the world. The two will have a common disease and a fuzzy period.

Generally speaking, depression is more pathological, and he is negative and self-responsible for many things, and he feels bad; but loss and grief are about losing love for this person, and his ideas are still different.

Whether you have medical conditions or not, whether you suffer from depression. As long as you feel pain is powerless, you are not doing well, you are sad, unable to focus, and unable to find the meaning of life, when the situation lasts for one or two months or symptoms affect your life, it is recommended to take medicine..

If you worry about taking medicine, you need to take medicine. In fact, medicine may not necessarily start medicine, but there will be professional evaluation and introduction. For example, if you are transferred to a consultant, or take town detergents, you can focus on life, sleep well, and not be impatient all day long. Helping the client work and family relationships can gradually stabilize.