After becoming a mother, not only were there photos of the baby on the mobile phone, but the cute and tender baby on the Internet were also seen on the Internet, and the whole mother was full of love. Originally, it was a very good thing to take a young baby photo, and it was normal to pay attention to the information related to parenting, but because of this, the mother felt very stressed...

The child was often used by the elders to compare with corn. "Corn" whose daughter Huang Zijiao and Meng Gengru was just over one year a few days ago. The two of them often share the growth and parenting experience of corn. The face fans are full of warm and positive energy, attracting many mother fans.

But yesterday a fan sent a private message to Meng Gengru: "This mother was very happy that her child was born on the same day as corn, and therefore became a fan of corn. But later she found that the eldest child in the family often compared corn with his children, which caused the mother to feel very stressed..."

Every child has his own speed!

Meng Gengru said that he was a little uncomfortable after watching it. He originally shared the growth of corn in the hope that in this chaotic world, he could bring everyone a little bit of fun and joy. But in fact, besides this mother, she often meets other parents on the road, and she also worrys about why her children can't walk...and so on.

"I don't know if this article will be reposted by everyone, but I want to tell all the parents that corn is a bit too fast; crawling more is better for children and can stimulate the integration of nerves. But after corn starts to leave, I hope she doesn't crawl, she doesn't want to..."

Meng Gengru also remembered that her mother said that she had to walk before she had not crawled for a few times, which caused her to fall easily after growing up... Therefore, she used to be covered in legs.

"Dear parents and elders, don't worry, don't compare. Every child has his own speed. It's not necessarily good to be as fast as corn; all the sharing of videos and photos is really just hope to send some happiness to everyone!"

Husband supports: Children cannot be compared differently

Meng Gengru called his fans: "Please tell everyone, don't give yourself or the main caregiver too much pressure and the thought of replenishing your brain. I will feel very guilty..."

The article also includes the last few nights of corn that I couldn't sleep, and finally I was coaxed to sleep and moved carefully from the bed: "So corn is also very good!" My husband Huang Zijiao also said that thank you for your hard work! Every time he doesn't care about posting or videos, he will always mention: "Every child is different, and it really can't be too comparable." He will also give tips at the same time in the controllable scope of himself and his wife, hoping to help.

Netizen: The problem is that people who love better

fans leave comments: "Every child is independent, and being healthy is the most important thing", "Every child is great! They must be seen to compare themselves with themselves!", "Many grandparents really speak indifferently, but these hearings are really uncomfortable in mother's ears."

"Thank you, mother, don't let bad words affect a good mood", "When Mom really needs to be brave in front so that children can be happy behind," "This is how people are more angry than people. I hope this mother will feel more comfortable, find the right people to complain, get back positive energy, come on!"

The children are compared, which is really a very common thing in daily life. It not only comes from the elders, sometimes even from the mouths of parents themselves (such as comparing with cousins, neighbors, classmates), but being careful can prevent the child's heart from being invisibly hurt.

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