Due to budget ties, many newlyweds will choose to register for marriage and not hold a wedding banquet. A netizen and her boyfriend just wanted to register for marriage, but their parents wanted to hold a wedding banquet and said, "How to get the red bag I had bought back?", which made her stunned, but she didn't want to let her fiancé be dismissed later, so she wanted to ask the netizens' ideas.

A netizen posted on Dcard's "Wedding Board" that her boyfriend only wanted to register for marriage and did not want to hold a "achievement exhibition" of her parents, but her parents insisted that they hold a wedding banquet and said, "You don't do it, how can I get the red bag I packed before?" The implication was that they wanted them to pay the table by themselves. The red bag was for their parents, which made her feel moved, "We are just small members, now When getting married, she asked her parents, "If you want to hold a wedding banquet, you will pay your own desk." Unexpectedly, her parents said, "How much money did you spend so much money to raise, and it costs a few million yuan there." This made her feel helpless and she had no intention of doing it at all, but she didn't want to let her fiancé be scolded by her parents later, so she wanted to ask, "Is there anything like us?"

Netizens said, "What do you want them to collect money? You still want your red bag you packed out. Buy the order, and you still have a love for nurturing, "You might as well give the money from the desk directly to your parents", "We only plan to take a simple wedding registration, but our boyfriend's father also said the same thing. He wanted to recycle the red bag but didn't want to spend money, so his boyfriend replied to him directly: Otherwise, you will be fine again Find a partner to get married and recycle gifts", "My mother is the same, she has no registration, but she has various feelings, as if she is going to get married", "Tell them that they are making red bags for the previous newcomers, and it has nothing to do with you whether you want to do it, please find out."

A netizen shared his experience, "Mr. and I were going to marry, and we said to our parents, "We are going to marry, we only want to register for nothing else. The registration is the father of both parties. If you (dad) insist on holding a wedding banquet and other parties, then we won't hold a meeting. We don’t want to be stolen by love, so we take the initiative to attack our parents, "We originally just wanted to register. My father and mother insisted on having a banquet, but of course they paid for red bags, so I helped some trouble and made a humanoid billboard that day. They would do whatever they wanted, and the biggest money they paid."

Some netizens suggested to use the hahaha to procrastinate, "1. Register first: After registering, say it after registering, hahaha 2. After registering, say it after saving money for the wedding banquet, haha 3. After pregnancy, say it after the wedding banquet, say it after the baby is finished, haha 4. Delicate: What wedding banquet is there for the children? hahaha." Some netizens suggested that the original poop be stronger, "I will be strong with my father!! 1. They pay for the money, and they will collect the red package. 2. If you don’t agree, don’t get married at any time (I’ll discuss with my boyfriend first. My father and mother pay for my wedding friend’s table, but I’m going to pay for the red package. I’m probably only a new secret to the actual payment.