The new bride complains about the husband s family "all expenses are excluded from 3. Independent meter self-payment" Internet praises one-sidedly

A newly married wife posted a complaint on her face book "Kuobei Grandma 2.0" and just married her husband's house. She felt that many things were too clear, which made her feel unlike a family. For example, she lives in the second floor with her husband, and she had to apply for an independent meter by herself and then pay the fee for herself.
She also noticed that the family's money must be divided into three parts (father-in-law, mother-in-law, husband), and the wine and beverages for the wedding reception guests must be divided into 3, and even the mother-in-law wanted to be divided into 3. In the end, no one recognized the extra three tables, so the mother-in-law asked directly in front of her, "Who is the money for the three tables of the daughter-in-law's family?" She wanted to call her parents immediately and help her deliver the money.
She complained, "Am I harming my husband? When the woman came to the man to have a banquet, is it because my parents' family had to pay the table? It's been more than a year since I have never dared to talk to my parents' family." Fortunately, her husband knew how her mother would say this when she faced her wife, and hurriedly said, "My wife's family is mine."
For many times, she could only accept what her parents-in-law did. For example, the husband takes care of the marriage betrothal payments and the red bags that are paid by the car gifts and drinking tea are also her husband. The in-laws are only responsible for attending the meeting and walking on the red blanket and eating. In order to save money for her husband, she also agreed to the official certificate, but her father-in-law and mother-in-law wanted to recycle the money they had previously packed, and in the end they could only respect it.
Although my parents-in-law clearly distinguished many things related to money, as for the matter of phone, many netizens left messages under the post and praised them very well. Some people say that this is very good. Why do you have a high-spirited breath of coldness? Just pay for it yourself, otherwise you will be said, "Why is the fee much more than when you are not married? It means that it is all the wife who is blowing the coldness, and it will be better to recommend it to her!"
Someone encouraged the wife and told her, "That book It’s the model of your husband’s original family. Is your husband handling it very well? Every family has their own habitual patterns in operation. After a long time, you will get used to it. There is nothing wrong with it." Others also responded, "If you know the difference, you won’t be said", "At least divide by 3, not all of them will ask you to pay."